Set boundaries that ACTUALLY work and stop the outbursts before they even begin

even if your child forgets everything two minutes after you discuss it, you've tried everything before, and you're way past burnout yourself!

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the problem

Whenever you try to set boundaries with your child, you get a blank stare, or maybe a nod, before they immediately forget what you talked about and go right back to doing the same thing…

Or your child is superb at finding loopholes… They constantly negotiate everything, and you end up in a “is not” / “is too” kind of debate...

Maybe you don't know to respond to behaviors when it isn't really in your child’s control because they don't understand the boundary, they struggle with impulse control, don't understand personal space, etc.

I mean, how can we discipline them when it isn’t their fault?

On the other hand, how will our kids learn that their actions have very real consequences in the real world, even if those actions aren’t their fault if we don’t discipline them now? It's a lose-lose situation.

And i'm here to change that.

Instead, Can You Imagine...

Your neurodivergent child doing what you ask them to do, or even just cooperating a little, without the big fight, endless negotiations, or resorting to threatening tech time.

Setting basic boundaries for your family that actually work and that your neurodivergent child will actually follow, plus knowing exactly how to handle behavior when your child struggles to follow those boundaries.

No more walking on eggshells and bending over backwards to avoid a meltdown or outburst from your neurodivergent child, and actually parenting your child again.

Imagine focusing on raising your child to be a good human instead of just avoiding the next battle.

But It's Just Not That Easy...

There are so many questions when it comes to setting and sticking to boundaries with neurodivergent kids...

Does your child even understand the boundaries you're trying to set? Do they remember them in the moment?

What behavior is caused by your child’s neurodivergence and what is just a child misbehaving? In other words—what behavior should be left alone and what should be corrected?

Are you even allowed to change your child’s behavior, or does that make you ableist?

If you stick to a boundary, are you going to push your child into a meltdown? What if they hurt themselves?

If you don't stick to any boundaries, are they going to ever learn that actions have consequences?

How can you find the energy to stick to boundaries when it feels so much easier to give in and avoid the battle?

Imagine having solid boundaries in place for your neurofamily ...without constantly battling your child, pushing them into a meltdown, or resorting to threats...

here's a glimpse into your future...

Your child knows that when a sibling says no, that means no, and they actually accept that and do something else instead of punching them in the face.
Your child understands that sometimes you can't stop what you're doing to immediately do what they want, and they have a plan for when they have to wait that they actually follow.
Your child does their school work, does what you ask, and even helps out with basic chores without a massive battle—and you're done with the overwhelming burnout.

Not only is all of this possible, I’ve created the solution to get you there faster, easier, and without throwing out all of your child's accommodations.

I'M READY FOR THIS!

INTRODUCING

BOUNDARIES BLUEPRINT

Your step-by-step blueprint to create and stick to effective boundaries with your neurodivergent kids!

Boundaries Blueprint is everything you need to:

Create effective boundaries that are unique to your neurofamily
Empower each member of your family to actually follow those boundaries
Handle behavior struggles when your child struggles with a boundary
And even prevent behavior struggles before they happen

THIS IS EXACTLY WHAT I NEED !

Module one

Build a Solid Foundation

Discover the two types of parents (and how your parent-type impacts how you navigate boundaries)
Acknowledge your own experiences with boundaries with a simple
3-step process
Find out how to find and shift disempowering thoughts without toxic positivity bull shit

Module two

Create Effective Boundaries

Understand the 3 Rules of Effective Boundaries so that you set boundaries that your neurodivergent children can (and do) actually follow the boundaries that you set
Discover the 3 boundaries *every* family must have, and how to customize them for your child’s current developmental level and abilities
Let go of “should” boundaries that society expects and set boundaries that are unique to your family so that every boundary you spend energy on actually matters to you and your family

Module three

Develop a Unique Boundary Plan

Find out how to effectively communicate boundaries so that your neurodivergent child can fully understand them even if they have a receptive language delay and they seem to forget everything you say two minutes after you say it
Create solid plans to manage your child’s capacity to follow each boundary so that they *can* meet the expectation even when they’re tired, hungry, overwhelmed, or downright cranky.

Module four

Handle Difficult Behavior

The difference between consequences and results, and how they fit into your plan for handling difficult behavior
Exactly what to do in the moment when your child is mid-meltdown to keep everyone safe (including, your child, their siblings, and yourself) and get through the meltdown as quickly as possible
How to balance the fact that all behavior is communication with making sure that your kids learn that some behaviors simply aren’t okay.

Module five

Prevent Behavior Struggles

The powerful difference between exploring and excavating, so that you can stop endlessly digging for triggers and start actually handling behaviors
Exactly how to use your child’s 4F response to change their most dangerous behaviors in healthy and respectful ways
Create solid plans that allow you to prevent your child’s behavior struggles before they even begin

Plus you'll get access to these exclusive bonuses...

Demand-Free Boundaries Guide

Whether your child has a PDA-profile or they just struggle with demand-avoidance, this guide will walk you through exactly how to navigate boundaries without triggering your child and ending up in a power struggle.

$97 value

Confidence Boosting Bundle

How to easily and confidently communicate to others—like grandparents, babysitters, and teachers—that there are real and thoughtful reasons why you respond to behavior and set boundaries the way you do so that you can stop feeling so isolated and judged.

$147 value

Personal Boundaries 101

Most of us have spent months (or years) letting go of every single one of our boundaries, and those of us who were socialized as women were never really taught to have healthy boundaries in the first place. Boundaries 101 will help you identify and stick to your own personal boundaries even if you’ve ignored them for years.

$99 value

are you ready?

Build a Solid Foundation (Valued at $199)
Create Effective Boundaries (Valued at $199)
Develop a Boundary Plan (Valued at $199)
Neurofamilies FB Community (Valued at $199)

Handle Difficult Behaviors (Valued at $199)
Prevent Behavior Struggles (Valued at $199)
Confidence Boosting Bundle (Valued at $147)
Demand-Free Boundaries Guide (Valued at $97)

CHOOSE YOUR PAYMENT OPTION

ONE EASY PAYMENT

$350

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6 MONTHLY PAYMENTS

$75

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"To say that you changed our lives would be an understatement."

We adjusted to a sleep schedule with J that honors everyone's sleep needs and have set a firm boundary around sleep in our bed. We're all really happy with where we're at sleep-wise.

Thank you so much for helping us communicate our sleep needs with J while honoring his sleep needs too, and for helping us to set boundaries!

Shannon Clay | Mom of 8-Year-Old Twins

"I am happy to say he was sleeping by 10:00pm!"

Yesterday after the timer went off he gave me the iPad and said “Ok. Turn off iPad, Mami.” 😳

He asked for his favorite song, and after putting it on it only took 10 mins and he was off to dreamland 🥳

Illems Velazquez | Mom of 2 Year Old

Don't Go It Alone...

Get access to our exclusive peer-led Neurofamilies Facebook group! This community is only for alumni of my courses or programs, so you’ll be able to chat with other parents looking to implement the program and get priceless feedback from each other!

There has never been a better time to create effective boundaries for your unique neurofamily.

the time is now!

If you’re ready to take some big moves and make a real difference for your unique neurofamily, I’m holding out my hand waiting for you to grab on.

By the time you finish Boundaries Blueprint, here are just a few things you'll have (yeah, this will be your new normal):

Unique Family Boundaries
Effective Boundary Plans
Doable Behavior Plans
Kids Following Boundaries

If you wait, you’ll be in the same place you are now. And trust me, friend, 6 months from now, you’ll wish you had started today!

I'M READY FOR THIS!

are you ready?

Build a Solid Foundation (Valued at $199)
Create Effective Boundaries (Valued at $199)
Develop a Boundary Plan (Valued at $199)
Neurofamilies FB Community (Valued at $199)

Handle Difficult Behaviors (Valued at $199)
Prevent Behavior Struggles (Valued at $199)
Confidence Boosting Bundle (Valued at $147)
Demand-Free Boundaries Guide (Valued at $97)

CHOOSE YOUR PAYMENT OPTION

ONE EASY PAYMENT

$350

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6 MONTHLY PAYMENTS

$75

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It's choice time, friend. Are you ready to set and stick to boundaries that actually work for your neurofamily?

Is Boundaries Blueprint Right for You?

I'll be honest, Boundaries Blueprint is not right for everyone, so let's take a look and see if this course is your right next step...

YOU ARE A GREAT FIT FOR BOUNDARIES BLUEPRINT IF:

You're raising a neurodivergent child (Autistic / ADHD / Anxiety / DMDD / OCD / etc.) and/or identify with neurodivergent parenting styles.
You've struggled with setting and sticking to boundaries with your kids, and you're ready to finally figure out a system that actually works for your unique (read: weird!) family.
You've been backing off and accommodating for so long that you're fried and you just have nothing left to give, so you need SOME balance before you break.
You're constantly second-guessing yourself—not sure if your child's behavior is in their control of because of their neurodivergence or how you should respond.
You find yourself swinging wildly between "consistent" boundaries and being "flexible" and accommodating because neither strategy works 100% of the time.

YES, THAT'S DEFINITELY ME!

Hey friend, I'm Kaylene

I’m an Autistic mom of 6 neurodivergent kids, and I’ve spent the last 6 years helping committed parent-advocates raise their neurodivergent kids with ease.

In that time I’ve had the privilege of coaching dozens of parents with unique circumstances—toddlers, teens, non-speaking, highly verbal, comorbid disorders, single parents, only children, large families, homeschoolers, and more—and I’ve seen what’s actually working right now behind the scenes in families just like yours.

And the Boundaries Blueprint course is my chance to guide you in setting (and sticking to) boundaries that actually work for your unique neurofamily!

I’ll be teaching the timeless strategies that I use with my own family and that my clients use to get massive results with their neurodivergent children every single day.

"Too Good to Be True"
Money Back Guarantee

I know that you’ve probably tried all the books, courses, and trainings out there before, and this might sound too good to be true.

That’s why I’m offering my “too good to be true” 14-day money-back guarantee.

Simply send me an email at [email protected] and show me that you completed the first two modules within the first 14 days, and I will personally refund your money *and* give you a 1:1 coaching call.

No matter what, you will have a plan to move forward and handle boundaries with your neurodivergent child!